Overwhelmed?

Hi friends:

 

The word I keep hearing from everyone I encounter is overwhelmed.

 

Overwhelmed by the

  • News

  • Conflict

  • Anger

  • Loss

  • Us vs. Them

  • Meanness

  • Health struggles

  • Grief

  • Splintering

  • Undone “to do” lists

  • Estranged relationships

  • Needs of others

  • Stress

 

Jesus’ gracious, patient, and gentle invitation is not…

  • “Get over it!”

  • “Quit being a whiner!”

  • “Man up!”

  • “Fight for your position!”

  • “You want to cry? I’ll give you something to cry about!”

 

And He said to them, "Come away by yourselves to a secluded place and rest a while."

(For there were many people coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat.)

They went away in the boat to a secluded place by themselves. (Mark 6:31-32)

 

Jesus’ voice whispers to pull away, rest our souls, fill our empty tanks, and lean into the one and only Savior who can handle everything on our platter. Then we can return to family, community, work, ministry, and the craziness of life with a refocused and refueled spirit.

 

  • How are you feeding your soul?

  • Who is encouraging you to keep your eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of faith?

  • Do you need to pull away from the “muchness and manyness” as Richard Foster calls it?

  • Do you need to let the whirlwind settle until you can hear clearly again?

  • Do you need some time at the feet of Jesus?

 

The song that keeps playing in my head, inviting me to walk at the pace of God… Take a deep breath, then sing with me…

 

In the morning, when I rise

In the morning, when I rise

In the morning, when I rise, give me Jesus

 

Give me Jesus

Give me Jesus

You can have all this world

But give me Jesus

 

When I am alone

When I am alone

When I am alone, give me Jesus

 

Give me Jesus

Give me Jesus

You can have all this world

But give me Jesus

 

(traditional spiritual)

 

Do you need Jesus? Come along with us as we seek to know, follow, and experience the presence of God no matter what sort of whack-a-mole you are currently handling.

 

Refocus and Refuel Retreat:

Could you use a reboot? Everything—including YOU—works better if you shut it down, let it rest, then fire it up again.

 

Do you need space, time, encouragement, and direction to seek Jesus without interruptions? Men and women are invited to join us for the Refocus and Refuel Retreat. We would love to have you with us for this restful getaway November 14-16 in Cincinnati.

 

This is a great way to prepare Him room before we head into the craziness and busyness of the holiday season.

 

Especially helpful and restful for pastors and missionaries to be recharged without any expectations on your platter!

 

Space is limited, so register NOW to come along for this drink of cool water. https://www.psalmone.org/refocus-and-refuel

 

New Bible Study Series:

November 4 we will soon be starting a new Bible series in Colossians! We are online, so men and women from anywhere are welcome to join us. Come along as we marvel at the supremacy of Christ:

 

“He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth,

visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities-- all things have been created through Him and for Him.

He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.” (Colossians 1:15-17)

 

I need a fresh and powerful vision of Jesus. Do you? Sign up to receive the links and resources whether you can join us every week or once in a while: https://www.psalmone.org/tuesday-night-bible-study

 

Just for Pastors’ Wives:

 

  • Psalm One Soul Care Retreats. We LOVE these small, relaxed, fun, renewing getaways.

 

“Pastors’ wives have full (often over-full) schedules and may also shy away from “Stepford Wives” types of gatherings. The “Sisterhood of the Fishbowl” Soul Care Retreat is nothing like this! The past retreat that I attended was so life-giving and necessary for me. We’ve been going through a difficult time in our church and I was shattered. Being able to talk to others who knew exactly where I was coming from and to receive prayer and encouragement from them, was like having my burdens lifted from my shoulders and carried by these women. It’s amazing how you can develop such a strong connection to people you’ve never met before. I’m an introvert and being in a group of strangers is very intimidating for me, but it doesn’t take long to find commonalities with the other women. Linda Kline also facilitates this gathering in a way that is healthy, safe, God-focused, healing, and fun. It is absolutely worth the time, money, and effort. If you’re hesitating in any way, give it a chance and sign up. You’ll never hesitate again.”

 

Free weekends never just appear. You may think you cannot take a weekend away to replenish your soul, but in reality we can't afford not to. Block out the dates now to join us for one of these wonderful retreats! Space is limited. If you want to come to both, this is the year to do it…

§  Cincinnati, Ohio—January 30 to February 1

§  Green Lake, Wisconsin—April 10-12

 

Questions? Hesitations? Available spots? Call Linda at 513-226-0025. For more information and to register: https://www.psalmone.org/pastors-wives

 

  • Thursday Night Oasis: Once a year is not enough. Whether you live in downtown Manhattan or the middle of nowhere, you can join us once a week! Come gather with the Sisterhood of the Fishbowl Thursday nights at 7:30 p.m. Eastern Time for laughter, prayer, encouragement, shared wisdom, and a supportive community of women who know life in the ministry. You are always welcome, whether you drop in from time to time or able to be there every week. You never know what we’ll wind up discussing! Sign up to stay in the loop with links and resources: https://www.psalmone.org/pastors-wives

 

Life is complicated. Don’t try to handle this alone. Let’s link arms and follow Jesus together.

 

Much love,

Linda

 

Vitally important questions for Ministry Wives to ponder…

Vitally important questions for Ministry Wives to ponder…

 

  • Where are your truly safe places?

  • Where can you “unclench” and relax and just be your genuine self?

  • Who are your Aarons and Hurs (Exodus 17) to hold your arms up in the battle?

  • Who truly understands the roller coaster world of ministry?

  • Where do you feel free to cry or scream if need be?

  • Who points you to God when you are worn out and struggling to find your North Star?

  • What restores your perspective and priorities?

  • Who helps you laugh at the crazy mix of ministry, marriage, family, career, and life?

  • When did you last experience unhurried and peaceful rest?

  • Are you struggling with something so heartbreaking, dark, or weird that you feel no one would understand or even believe?

  • Who feeds your soul?

  • Who pastors you?

  • Who helps reminds you how much you are loved and treasured?

  • How often do you PLAY and have FUN?

 

Every week I work with pastors, missionaries, ministry spouses, pastors’ kids, and others from ministry families who are dealing with various struggles. They may be dealing with stress, depression, conflict, betrayal, deep loneliness, or fear of the wheels coming off in some way. The common denominator in usually: no close friends. Lots of acquaintances, maybe hundreds or even thousands. But few or no friends who can truly listen, come alongside, and care for their soul.

 

"Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person; having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but to pour them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, knowing that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then, with the breath of kindness, blow the rest away." –Dinah Maria Mulock Craik

 

The Sisterhood of the Fishbowl (as we call it) is Psalm One’s (https://www.psalmone.org/) community of encouragement for pastors’ wives. These women are MY lifeline. They are the finest human beings I know. Authentic, non-Stepford-Wife friends of depth, substance, camaraderie, transparency, support, and laughter. Our gatherings and retreats are not about being the Perfect Pastor’s Wife. They are designed to restore your soul and spirit, find your identity in God, build healthy and reciprocal friendships, and nurture the connections, peace, security, grace, rest, release, laughter and tools we all need to keep our heart alive toward Jesus.

 

Where can you find friends who understand the unique stressors of life in the fishbowl of ministry?

 

  • Psalm One Soul Care Retreats just for Ministry Wives. We LOVE these small, relaxed getaways.

 

“Pastors’ wives have full (often over-full) schedules and may also shy away from “Stepford Wives” types of gatherings. The “Sisterhood of the Fishbowl” Soul Care Retreat is nothing like this! The past retreat that I attended was so life-giving and necessary for me. We’ve been going through a difficult time in our church and I was shattered. Being able to talk to others who knew exactly where I was coming from and to receive prayer and encouragement from them, was like having my burdens lifted from my shoulders and carried by these women. It’s amazing how you can develop such a strong connection to people you’ve never met before. I’m an introvert and being in a group of strangers is very intimidating for me, but it doesn’t take long to find commonalities with the other women. Linda Kline also facilitates this gathering in a way that is healthy, safe, God-focused, healing, and fun. It is absolutely worth the time, money, and effort. If you’re hesitating in any way, give it a chance and sign up. You’ll never hesitate again.”

***

“It was a true gift to come away with God and friends — both old and new — to share our stories, lift one another up, and spend uninterrupted time with Jesus. Our lives are so busy, and many times it feels we are being ‘pecked to death’ by demands from spouse, children, parents, job, and ministry. These retreat times give us space to connect more deeply with Jesus and to share life with women who just ‘get it'.  The age range this weekend was significant, spanning 3 generations. In spite of this, our shared lives of ministry gave us a great deal in common. We could laugh together uproariously and also grieve empathetically. Shared challenges, successes, griefs, fears, joys, and just a bit of irreverence about ministry life make a wonderful mesh of connections. If you are a pastor’s wife wondering whether you can justify the cost and/or the time away from responsibilities:  YES! These retreats pay dividends for months and years after the event.”

 

Free weekends never just appear. You may think you cannot take a weekend away to replenish your soul, but in reality we can't afford not to. Block out the dates now to join us for one of these wonderful retreats! Space is limited. If you want to come to both, this is the year to do it…

§  Cincinnati, Ohio—January 30 to February 1

§  Green Lake, Wisconsin—April 10-12

 

Questions? Hesitations? Available spots? Call Linda at 513-226-0025. For more information and to register: https://www.psalmone.org/pastors-wives

 

  • Once a year is not enough. Where you live in downtown Manhattan or the middle of nowhere, you can join us once a week! Come meet with the Sisterhood of the Fishbowl Thursday nights at 7:30 p.m. Eastern Time for laughter, prayer, encouragement, shared wisdom, and a supportive community of women who know life in the ministry. You are always welcome, whether you drop in from time to time or able to be there every week. Sign up to stay in the loop with links and resources: https://www.psalmone.org/pastors-wives

 

    • Craving time in the Word that you don’t have to lead? Join us for the Psalm One Bible Study! A great group of people who encourage and support one another as we learn from the Scriptures. Tuesdays at 7:30 Pm Eastern Time. For men and women from any time zone. Sign up to stay in the loop for links and resources: https://www.psalmone.org/tuesday-night-bible-study

 

  • Could you or your husband (or both) use a reboot? Sometime to pull away from the muchness and manyness to focus on Jesus without interruptions? Men and women are invited to join us for the Refocus and Refuel Retreat. We would love to have you with us for this restful getaway November 14-16 in Cincinnati. This is a great way to prepare Him room before we head into the craziness and busyness of the holiday season. Especially helpful and restful for pastors and missionaries to be recharged without any expectations on your platter! Register NOW to come along for this drink of cool water. https://www.psalmone.org/refocus-and-refuel

 

We need each other. Life is too hard to handle on your own. Ministry is definitely too tough to go it alone. Come and find a friend or two. If you need a listening ear, prayer, resources, spiritual direction, or a place to scream, I’m here. (Just give me a heads-up if you’re going to scream…)

 

Much love,

Linda

Stop the world, I want to get off!

Hi friends:

 

Have you ever felt like “Stop the world, I want to get off!”?

 

Yikes. So much turmoil and conflict around us. So many people hurting on so many levels. So many people lashing out at others. So much angst and grief.

 

It’s easy to get overwhelmed. I can’t meet all these needs. Nor was I meant to. There is one Savior and it is not me. But we are all called to do what I can to lift up one another, especially now.

 

We need each other. But the Church is more splintered than ever in my memory. Christians are so far apart in so many ways. With so many ways to connect, we are more isolated and lonely than ever before.

 

Check on your friends. We are not okay.

 

For the last couple of years I have been wrestling with three questions:

  1. Where is my home?

  2. Who is my family?

  3. What is my voice?

 

The most important is #3. What is my voice in the midst of this fractured world? I long to be able to say, "I glorified You on the earth, having accomplished the work which You have given ME to do.” (John 17:4). What is MY assignment? What is yours? I believe mine is:

  • To point to Jesus.

  • To teach the Word.

  • To love people.

  • To be attentive enough to notice God at work.

  • To share beauty, humor, joy, adventure, encouragement, and challenge.

  • To be a sounding board for those who are struggling with faith and the Church.

  • To help people see, experience, and follow Jesus.

 

That's what God has called me to do. Through teaching, speaking, discipleship, consulting, counseling, but also through divine appointments, photography, stories, travel, prayer pilgrimages, and interactions with people around the globe. People have invisible antennas out, wondering, "Is there anything real? Does genuine love exist? How can I trust anyone? Who is Jesus? What constitutes genuine Christianity?"

 

I am most definitely in process. I have definitely not arrived. But I believe that people are hungry for genuine, transformative, humble, transparent faith.

 

A large part of my ministry right now is helping Christians hold on to their faith who are looking around and feeling very spiritually homeless. Pastors who are caught in the crossfire of screaming demands from opposite camps. People who are honestly searching and saying, “I believe, help me in my unbelief.” People who want to hold on to Jesus but are profoundly appalled and disappointed in much of what they observe. Being a sounding board for people who are trying to hold on when it seems like the world has lost its mind.

 

The only way I can point people to Jesus is to observe Jesus, His relationships, priorities, and patterns.

 

When we read the Gospels, it sometimes looks like Jesus continually trying to break away and be alone with His Father, and the disciples and others keep dragging Him back into the mess:

 

“In the early morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house, and went away to a secluded place, and was praying there. Simon and his companions searched for Him; they found Him, and said to Him, ‘Everyone is looking for You.’" “Is your phone actually on silent? You haven’t replied to any of our texts! You haven’t updated your Facebook status today. Didn’t you see my Instagram post on Messenger? Why haven’t you left anything in the WhatsApp string? I left a Post-it note on your Bible!”

(Mark 1:35-37, plus my slight embellishments)

 

If Jesus needed to pull away to be with the Father, how much more do I?

 

It's not that we run away and never return. (Although I am often tempted…) It's that we pull away intentionally

  • to have our minds renewed and

  • to have our hearts softened and

  • to have our tanks filled and

  • to be filled with the Holy Spirit who is often very, very different than my spirit.

  • to return to a world that needs God, with my soul hopefully more full of Jesus than of Linda.

 

To follow His cycle of solitude, community, ministry… To pull away for five minutes, an hour, an evening, or a weekend to let the dust settle and to re-surface with renewed vision and energy. To deeply connect with others who listen and lift us, and help us understand and walk with Jesus. To reach out in any way God calls us to love and serve people. Then to pull away to be refueled again. Repeat.

 

That’s why I do what I do in Psalm One Ministries. My voice has not changed in 40 years of ministry. (Am I really that old????)

 

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” Matthew 11:28-30, The Message)

 

Much love,

Linda

 

Come along with us to learn the unforced rhythms of grace: solitude, community, and ministry:

 

  • Whether you live in Cincinnati or the middle of nowhere, please join us for the Psalm One Bible Study! A great group of people who encourage and support one another as we learn from the Scriptures. Tuesdays at 7:30 Pm Eastern Time. For men and women from any time zone. Sign up to stay in the loop for links and resources: https://www.psalmone.org/tuesday-night-bible-study

 

  • Could you use a reboot? Sometime to pull away from the muchness and manyness to focus on Jesus without interruptions? Men and women are invited to join us for the Refocus and Refuel Retreat. We would love to have you with us for this restful getaway November 14-16 in Cincinnati. This is a great way to prepare Him room before we head into the craziness and busyness of the holiday season. Especially helpful and restful for pastors and missionaries to be recharged without any expectations on your platter! Register NOW to come along for this drink of cool water. https://www.psalmone.org/refocus-and-refuel

 

 

Soul Care Retreats just for Ministry Wives no matter how many hats you wear:

Free weekends never just appear. Block out the dates now to join us for one of these wonderful getaways! If you want to come to both, this is the year to do it

  • Cincinnati, Ohio—January 30 to February 1

  • Green Lake, Wisconsin—April 10-12

 

Once a year is not enough? Join us Thursday nights at 7:30 p.m. Eastern Time for laughter, prayer, encouragement, and a supportive community of women who know life in the ministry.

 

For more information and to register: https://www.psalmone.org/pastors-wives

 

Life is challenging. Don’t try to do this alone. We need one another!