Alone Together #1 The Divine Mentor

I’ve been sharing encouragement and tools for staying connected with God with those who signed up for “Alone Together” during this challenging season. I thought I’d share a few online in case they might encourage you too…

 

Good morning! Or Good evening, as the case may be! How are you holding up? My kind friends have loaded me up with food and TP, so I am set for a indeterminate quarantine. Hopefully I can share some good resources and encouragement with you during this season.

 

Today, first things first: Psalm One

How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked,

Nor stand in the path of sinners,

Nor sit in the seat of scoffers!

But his delight is in the law of the LORD,

And in His law he meditates day and night.

He will be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water,

Which yields its fruit in its season

And its leaf does not wither;

And in whatever he does, he prospers.

 

If we are alone without the Word, we can wind up in introspection, emptiness, and distortion. There’s more Christian content available than ever, but some is devoid of Scripture, some is decorated with Scripture, but very little gets us into Scripture. How many of you have started out January 1 with honorable goals to read through Scripture, only to wind up lost and giving up in the wilderness of Leviticus or Numbers? How can we absorb the truth of Scripture while socially distancing?

 

Wayne Cordeiro has developed a simple plan to get us into the Word from Genesis to Revelation. Many of you have done this with me before. The beauty of this plan is that it can be done alone, with a spouse or friend, with your family or small group, with 1, 2, 5, 10, 100, or 1000 people. And it gets us into the whole of Scripture, instead of a verse here and there.

 

Three steps (with cheat sheets attached):

  1. Read the passage silently (in a paper translation instead of a paraphrase or electronic gadget). Read slowly, as if you’ve never seen or heard this before, and meditate on the passages. You may have time to read both multiple times, or you may be drawn to spend most of your time in one passage or chapter. Leave everything else alone and simply read the Scripture. Do not cross-reference, do not flip to other passages, do not take notes. Rein yourself in and remain only within these passages.

 

  1. When the timer goes off, pick up your pen and journal and silently respond to God. Is there one particular word, phrase, or passage that grips you? Is there message of comfort? Or a good kick to the head? An answer to prayer? A marching order? What do you see about God? Is there any encouragement or challenge for you? Write a letter to Him, confess, worship and adore Him, list the attributes of God or instructions from the passage, consider how this relates to your life, whatever the Lord prompts you to do in response to what you’ve read.

 

  1. When the time goes off again, discuss and pray… If you’re on your own, you might want to go straight to prayer. 😉

 

Some links to help:

https://www.amazon.com/Divine-Mentor-Growing-Faith-Savior-ebook/dp/B00B85A7WC

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGh6Xke1sPU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSyP6zOnObk

https://www.lifejournal.cc/

Weird times. Surreal days. Unprecedented situations. Uncharted territory. Emotional roller coaster.

I’ve been under house arrest for a month now. Whenever I get antsy, I remember Anne Frank and her family remained hidden in the secret annex for twenty-five months. I am being asked to quarantine safely in a comfortable home where I can work from home, still get a paycheck, finally catch up on unfinished projects (at least that’s the theory), with endless entertainment and options to connect with distant friends and family in so many creative ways. Friends leave groceries on my doorstep. I’m being asked to sit on the couch and watch Netflix. As an introvert, I sometimes enjoy social distancing too much. Although I am at very high risk if I should catch covid-19, I am certainly not among those in great hardship. I am grateful every day.

My heart is breaking for those who

  • are ill and dying

  • have lost loved ones

  • are lonely and isolated

  • are hungry

  • do not live in a safe place or with safe people

  • are separated from friends and family

  • are trying to do jobs, family, education, ministry, and life in a whole new way

  • have lost or may lose their jobs or business

  • are facing tremendous financial issues

  • fight fear every day while they work on the front lines

 Any of my disappointments or cancelled plans pale to nothing beside what others are experiencing. Nevertheless, all of us may be encountering grief stemming from so many losses. Some of us are struggling with loneliness, depression, fear, sadness, uncertainty, and disconnection. If we ever needed a reminder that we are not in control, it is now. If there was ever a time when we needed to lean into Jesus, it is now.

 In the midst of all this, I have an unshakeable hope. I see good things happening. I see people

  • working harder to connect

  • handing their fish and loaves to God

  • getting creative

  • finding renewal in beauty

  • sharing waves, smiles, laughter, joy, and hilarity

  • appreciating the small and big things in life

  • realizing the power of genuine connection

  • valuing relationships

  • looking for ways to help

  • checking in on others

  • making a real effort to worship

  • working together as a planet

  • dropping divisions and attacks

  • surrendering their arrogance and easy answers

  • sacrificing personal comfort for the greater good

  • spending time with family

  • leaning into God in an intimate connection

  • getting back in the Word

  • clinging to Jesus

Some deep changes only come out of suffering and loss. May we each emerge from this challenging chapter as different people, people of perseverance, proven character, hope, and love.

“And not only this, but we also exult in our tribulations, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance; and perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope; and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.” (Romans 5:3-5)

 

Much love,

Linda

 

Wow. The world has changed. God has not.

But as for me, I trust in You, O LORD,

I say, "You are my God."

My times are in Your hand.

(Psalm 31:14-15)

 

The current Covid-19 pandemic is an unprecedented challenge in our lifetime. How do we handle these uncharted choppy waters?

 

  • Be kind. Be patient. Be gracious. Be gentle. People are very, very fragile. Emotions are close to the surface. Take care of one another. People are ill, dying, grieving, frightened, angry, lonely, disappointed, depressed, bored, terrified, conflicted, isolated, and vulnerable.

  • Check on one another. Support one another as we maneuver through this minefield. Ask God who you can serve by calling isolated friends and family, listening to those who need to process some tough struggles, getting groceries, running errands for those who are quarantined, donating for those in need, giving practical assistance, writing notes, posting fun and uplifting content, sharing beauty, and being Jesus with skin on. We can all help in some way. We need each other, especially now. Some fear the virus, some fear the financial fallout, some fear the time alone. Some of you are introverts, and the social distancing aspect of this crisis is no great hardship. Some of you are extroverts and are already losing your mind.

  • Be wise. Be responsible. Be aware of your own vulnerabilities and your impact on others. I am dismayed by some who are still recklessly putting others in danger by continuing non-essential gatherings, thereby risking lives. I know so many of us must remain in contact with other people through your jobs and responsibilities—and I applaud all of you who are caring for others and keeping us going. But as one of those high-risk individuals with severe lung issues, I beg you to self-quarantine if you can and observe social distance and good hygiene when you cannot.

  • Be ready to give an account for the hope that is in you. (1 Peter 3:15) People have their antennae out, looking for something, anything to hold onto in this storm. Many feel suddenly rudderless. Be the Body of Christ. Help others to take hold of “this hope we have as an anchor of the soul, a hope both sure and steadfast and one which enters within the veil, where Jesus has entered as a forerunner for us.” (Hebrews 6:19-20)

  • Choose peace over panic. Don't waste this opportunity. Take advantage of the quiet. Some of us burn the candle at both ends and may suddenly have buffer time and space for the first time in years. Use this time to be with God in His Word, in prayer, in silence and solitude. There’s a huge difference between loneliness and solitude. Loneliness is nothingness. Loneliness is empty. Solitude is being with God alone. Spending time with my Beloved. Solitude is life-giving. Solitude with Jesus fills us with hope and peace and direction. Lean in. Rest your head on the Lord so you can heart His heartbeat.

I have a challenging job description in Psalm One: To put your hand in the hand of Jesus. Teaching the Word, creating space for God, modeling uni-tasking instead of multi-tasking, and encouraging time alone at Jesus’ feet so people can hear that still small voice, see the One who is invisible, and truly experience God. To follow hard after Him with our head, heart, and hands. Some have been thrust into a season with extra time and space and have no idea what to do with it.

Would you appreciate some input, guidance, tools, or other content to help us spend this time with Jesus? At the Refocus and Refuel Retreat and Days of Refreshing, we practice seeking God “alone together”. That is not a contradiction in terms.  That means we are each spending time alone with the Lord, but with the encouragement and accountability of others who are also seeking Him. If you would like to receive this input, submit your email below for “Alone Together” and I’ll keep you in the loop.

My health varies, so I can’t guarantee how much or how often I will share. I’m not sure what form it will take. I want it to be Spirit-led instead of Linda-led, so let’s give God space and see what He might have to share with us.

In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials, so that the proof of your faith, being more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested by fire, may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ; and though you have not seen Him, you love Him, and though you do not see Him now, but believe in Him, you greatly rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of glory, obtaining as the outcome of your faith the salvation of your souls.

(1 Peter 1:5-9)

Please pray:

  • For all of those affected in so many ways at so many levels.

  • For those who are ill or will contract Covid-19.

  • For those who have or will lose loved ones to Covid-19.

  • For the medical teams and researchers battling this illness and caring for us.

  • For every worker who is keeping us going.

  • For people who need to keep working in a public setting to keep food on the table.

  • For people who may lose their business or will have to shut down for weeks or months.

  • For people who may be severely impacted financially.

  • For people who live paycheck to paycheck who no longer have a paycheck.

  • For people who are hungry.

  • For those whose plans and dreams have been thwarted in so many ways.

  • For all those whose entire life has been turned upside down.

  • For people who are very, very afraid with nothing to hold on to.

  • For people who are lonely and cut off from loved ones.

  • For people who are at high risk due to age, compromised immune systems, health complications and other issues.

  • That our global community will work together with

    • wise leadership

    • truthful communication

    • cooperation

    • the best minds and best practices we can bring to bear on Covid-19 and all the implications of this terrible pandemic.

Through all of this, I have this palpable, unshakeable sense of hope. I truly believe good things are going to come out of this. We’ve already seen so many people being proactive and creative to help, serve, support, and encourage others any safe way they can. But things will get a lot worse before they get better. Any predictions on how this will play out and how long it will last are mere guesses. God alone knows what we are facing. There are some things that only change through suffering. We do not have the answers, but we know that God is still sovereign and eternal, and He is not wringing His hands.

 

"O our God, will You not judge them? For we are powerless before this great multitude who are coming against us; nor do we know what to do, but our eyes are on You." All Judah was standing before the LORD, with their infants, their wives and their children.

(2 Chronicles 20:12-13)

 

May we humble ourselves before God as individuals and as a community. May we look to Him as the still spot in a spinning universe. May we rest in Him. And may we be shaped by trials to look more like Jesus.

Grace and peace,

Linda

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